Message from Brittany Trefelner
August 27, 2017 6:24 PM
To Tyler's family and loved ones,
It's been nearly two months since Tyler passed away and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about Tyler and how much he changed my life and impacted the lives of others. His legacy of helping others and loving unconditionally will live on- I have no doubt in that. Tyler is nothing short of amazing and will be truly missed.
My Deepest Sympathies,
Brittany Trefelner
Message from Ashley
August 15, 2017 12:47 AM
I was lucky enough to get Tyler. He was a tremendous person. I too once struggled from addiction and tried to shed light on him. My father passed away in November. He too was a ex drug addict. I haven't spook to Tyler in a while and was crushed by the news of his death. I've been trying to mentor people who are suffering from substance abuse recently. And I know it's a struggle. I give my deepest condolences and sympathy to his family.
Message from Laura Shepard
August 14, 2017 11:16 AM
Eric and Family, I just recently heard of Tyler's passing. Please accept my deepest heartfelt sympathies. I met Tyler just a few times. He is one of those few people who strike a note of warm familiarity the moment you meet them. His contagious smile and kind ways come back to mind quickly at just the thought of his name. May God bless you and your family with peace in the knowledge Tyler is home in heaven and in the Lord's promise of a loving and eternal reunion.
A candle was lit by Pals Early Childhood Care and Learning Center
on August 14, 2017 11:08 AM
A candle was lit by Ron and Laura Shepard
on August 14, 2017 11:08 AM
Message from Sue and Fred Silhanek
July 20, 2017 1:55 PM
To All of Tyler's Family and Friends,
Tyler was an AMAZING, loving, kind, and funny young man. I know we are all hurting from the loss of Tyler and I am sorry his life had to end too soon. For all of those who knew him we know how hard he tried to fight this battle. Thank you for all of you who tried to help Tyler, I know he appreciated all of you. We now need to use his memory and our energy to help those who are still fighting this battle and the families that are impacted by this epidemic.
God bless you Tyler, we all love you very much!
Love,
Aunt Sue
A candle was lit by Aunt Sue and Uncle Fred
on July 20, 2017 1:44 PM
A candle was lit by Brittany Trefelner
on July 16, 2017 11:08 AM
Message from Ann Herbst
July 9, 2017 7:47 PM
To Tyler's Family-
I did not know your son but my friend Cortney Lovell posted his obituary on Facebook. Your tribute moved me to tears. Thank you for your honesty about your son's struggles. As the mother of a 28-year-old who battles with substance use disorder, I think every day about the fact that I might be writing his obituary some day, that no matter what we do or say, my husband and I can't protect him from this awful, vicious disease. That is our reality and I am so grateful to you for telling Tyler's story to the world. The stigma is the worst part. Your love for your son and the battle that he fought is courageous and people need to understand these are human beings, not statistics. My deepest sympathy for your loss. My gratitude for your truth is enormous. May Tyler's memory be a blessing to you.
Sincerely, Ann Herbst
Message from Jennifer Lawrence
July 9, 2017 6:20 PM
I did not know your Tyler, but when I read the beautiful obituary that you wrote for him in the Times Union, I just wanted to tell you how moved I was by both Tyler's story and your honesty. Tyler sounds like he was a beautiful soul, and your unconditional love for him, despite his addiction, is a really rare and beautiful thing. I;m so sorry that your family has had this same tragedy occur twice. I know that so many of us who knew Tyler and who DIDN'T know Tyler, wish you all comfort, love and the peace of knowing that your honest story has touched a lot of people.
Message from Rick Leach
July 9, 2017 9:22 AM
Griffin and Family,
I am very sorry. The obituary was both a wonderful tribute to Tyler and a moving statement about what addiction can do. I believe lives will be saved because of what you wrote. Tyler's life had purpose, and his death will as well.
A candle was lit by Christina Rajotte
on July 8, 2017 7:19 PM
Message from Glendora Vuignier
July 8, 2017 2:00 PM
I don't know your family but I share you pain. I was so saddened to read of another one taken away by this horrible disease. I lost my son Roland on 7/2/2014 and seeing another person taken from this world so horrible. I wanted to reach out to let you know there is help for one loosing a child and I hope that you can find comfort in that support. I attend the Schenectady Chapter of Compassionate Friends and this has help me through some tough times. Parents are not suppose to bury their children first. The group meets on the first Wednesday of every month. It is at St. Kateri Tekakwitha Church 1803 Union Street Schenectady NY. There is a chapter in Albany but I don't know where it meets. My love and prayers go out to you and your family the lost of your precious child. They will always be our children. May you find comfort in prayer and know that I understand your pain. Sincerely, Glendora Vuignier
Message from Jonnie Riesmeyer McConaghy
July 8, 2017 10:51 AM
Eric,
So sorry for your loss. Such a young life passing so early.
We are praying for you and your family during this most difficult time.
We know the pain of addiction and hope you will keep the wonderful memories and let the grieving process bring you peace.
Jonnie
Message from Tana Jacques
July 7, 2017 10:11 PM
I know and understand the struggle! You will be missed by many. I'm so sorry you lost the fight...
A candle was lit by Tana Jacques
on July 7, 2017 10:10 PM
Message from Donna Carbonneau
July 7, 2017 10:02 PM
I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. My prayers are with you all. May God fill you with His peace.
A candle was lit by Brandon james
on July 7, 2017 8:36 PM
Message from Kathy (Ertel) Zelker
July 7, 2017 6:46 PM
Dear Eric:
There are no adequate words and no greater pain than loosing a child. My heart & my prayers go out to you & your family.
From what i have heard & read about him, your son was a beautiful human being. You were blessed. Kathy
Message from Ed and Jan Ardizone
July 7, 2017 2:33 PM
Very sad to hear of the passing of your son Tyler. Jan and I send our condolences.
Message from Thomas Fris
July 7, 2017 12:18 PM
To Tyler's family and friends-
My sincerest condolences. I did not know Tyler but I read his obituary in today's paper and I first want to thank you for your wisdom and courage in publishing his story. I too have lost friends to addiction over the years. I took the liberty of publishing his obituary to my Facebook page today, asking folks to work towards reforming laws and making treatment easily available to anyone who needs it. Please know that through his spirit by way of your kindness and courage others may be able to get the help they need.
God bless you all.
Tom Fris
Selkirk
Message from Rich
July 7, 2017 11:49 AM
My name is rich sambado, I met Tyler @ the meadows in January 2016. I treasured our time together.... we worked-out together, played volleyball and just enjoyed our down time together with many other wonderful people there in treatment. I am so sad right now to hear of his passing..... as you know, Tyler is a great dude and I will forever remember our time together... may you all have strength....rich
A candle was lit by Misty Rowe
on July 7, 2017 8:29 AM
Message from Diane Devine Melius
July 7, 2017 7:52 AM
Dear Leslie, John and family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Addiction is an evil disease that affects so many. May Tyler Rest In Peace and may your loss and his story help someone else who is struggling. Thoughts and prayers sent to all of you at this difficult time.
A candle was lit by Carrington Cox
on July 7, 2017 2:47 AM
A candle was lit by Kristin miner
on July 6, 2017 10:39 PM
A candle was lit by Carol Pilatzke Lorch.
on July 6, 2017 8:09 PM
Message from Rutledge Deas
July 6, 2017 6:51 PM
I had the wonderful opportunity to get to know Tyler at The Meadows. One of the funniest most genuine guys I have had the pleasure of meeting in my life. Hell of a ping pong player too! Fun guy. My time with him was short but deep. He left a trail. He will be sorely missed by all who met him. RIP Tyler
Message from Brad Grover & Family
July 6, 2017 4:57 PM
Griffin, Leslie, John, Eric, Kathy and the entire family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Tyler was an amazing and loving guy that was always a joy to be around. You are all the best family Ty could have ever asked for and you always gave him so much love and support. I was fortunate to get to know Griffin’s little brother while in California and his wit and smile will be sincerely missed.
Griffin, I know Ty will always be missed…please take comfort in knowing you have several other brothers across the country and around the world that will always be here for you and your family. Love you brother
Message from Deah Postiglion (Burnham)
July 6, 2017 3:01 PM
I am so so sorry for your loss. Tyler always made me laugh and smile. One of a kind. Thank you for sharing his story. Rest In Peace Tyler.
Message from Tam
July 6, 2017 1:49 PM
Dear Leslie and Family
I just wanted to reach out to send you my deepest condolences and a huge hug! I truly hope you can keep the positive and upbeat and joyful sides of Tyler close to you and that we all can learn from and are humbled by his struggles ! I am thinking about you all and keeping you in my prayers!
A candle was lit by Pierre Dao
on July 6, 2017 12:50 PM
Message from Kevin & Patty Broderick
July 6, 2017 12:26 PM
To the King family and friends of Tyler,
We are so sorry for the loss of your son and friend Tyler. Reading through the positives we were moved by his successes and expressed feelings from those who really knew him. While we cannot comprehend the depth of your loss, please know, as friends and parents, we understand your message and the importance of it. Stay with courage and positive memories.
A candle was lit by Jenny, Justin and Giada Fuld
on July 6, 2017 12:19 PM
A candle was lit by Lauren Leonard, with my deepest sympathy
on July 6, 2017 11:01 AM
Message from Becky Dawson/Voorhies
July 6, 2017 10:53 AM
Griffin and Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Message from Bryan
July 6, 2017 9:51 AM
I met Tyler in treatment in 2014. He took me under his wing from day one. He was so full of life and made so many people laugh. I will miss him dearly. My one hope is this can help shed more light on addiction. Rest easy, Tyler.
Message from Ashlee Dombrowski/Wood
July 6, 2017 9:42 AM
To the king family... I am so very sorry for this heartbreaking loss.... Tyler was a buddy since kindergarten... Part of our voorheesville crew. I have the fondest memories of him, our childhood, and beyond. I pray he is at peace and you all will find some comfort in this tragic loss. All my love ❤
Ashlee Dombrowski/wood
Highschool friend
Message from William Ritz III
July 6, 2017 8:19 AM
Mr. King and family, I am so sorry to hear about Tyler's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you...
Message from Carol LaFleur
July 6, 2017 7:29 AM
Our hearts are broken at the passing of Tyler. Sending our condolences to all of you and keeping you in our prayers. May the way his spirit touched so many bring you comfort during this extremely difficult time.
Carol LaFleur
Northeast Kidney Foundation
A candle was lit by Carol LaFleur
on July 6, 2017 7:27 AM